FOR INTERNATIONALLY MOBILE PROFESSIONALS & FAMILIES

How much is the confusion of expatriation really costing you?

Discover what's blocking your integration and build a path forward — aligned with you and the people you love.

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HI, I'M MAR DE VARGAS

Psychotherapist and mentor specialized in international transitions and expatriations.

I grew up between continents and built my life across France, Russia, Canada, Mexico, and Spain. As a woman, a mother of binational children, an expatriate, and a psychotherapist, I understand what it means to rebuild a sense of home while carrying multiple worlds inside you — and I bring that lived experience into my clinical work with professionals and families in transition.

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DOES ANY OF THIS SOUND FAMILIAR?

If you're here, this is probably part of your story

You're functioning, not living.

Every day gets checked off the list. But underneath, something feels flat — like you're managing life instead of living it.

You don't fit here or there.

Not quite from where you live now. Not quite from where you came from either. A quiet, constant in-between.

Under one roof, but each on a separate path.

You and the people you love are going through the same move — but not the same experience of it.

The guilt no one talks about.

You told yourself it was for the best. But somewhere underneath, there's a quiet guilt about what this move has cost the people you love most.

Ashamed to not be enjoying what looks like a privilege.

From the outside, this looks like the life everyone dreams of. So why does it feel this hard?

You know something has to change. But you don't know where to start.

You've tried to push through on your own. It's time for a different kind of support.

Mar de Vargas
LED BY MAR DE VARGAS

Psychotherapist, Transcultural Specialist & Founder of The ROOTS Program

More than 15 years working across psychotherapy, mentoring, and creative process — built while living the very thing this program addresses: an international life across five countries.

“An international transition isn't something to survive. It's something to be guided through.”

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WHAT BECOMES POSSIBLE

What's possible at the end of this process

A solid sense of identity.

Knowing who you are, regardless of the country you're in.

A real sense of belonging.

To yourself, to your family, to this new chapter.

Clarity in your decisions.

You regain your internal compass, without the weight of confusion.

A stronger family.

A transition that strengthens your family instead of wearing it down.

THE METHOD

The ROOTS Program

A 12-week process. Five phases. One real transformation. We don't treat symptoms — we work the root.

01RECOGNIZE
02ORIENT
03OWN
04THRIVE
05SUSTAIN
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No pressure, no obligation — just a conversation to see if ROOTS™ is right for you.

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WHAT ROOTS™ IS NOT

Not coaching. Not therapy. Not relocation logistics.

Not generic coaching.

Coaching gives you tools and goals. It doesn't ask what's underneath the goal you can't seem to reach.

Not traditional therapy.

Therapy processes the past. ROOTS™ honors what's there — but moves you forward, into a life you're designing.

Not relocation logistics.

I'm here for what happens after the boxes are unpacked — when the real transition begins.

ROOTS™ is where clinical depth, creative process, and real-world strategy meet.

Real clinical training

A method designed especially for this audience

100% personalized process

I work in three languages

Online, from anywhere

The goal is for you not to need me

COMMON QUESTIONS

Before you take the first step

Who is this for?

Executives, leaders, and international professionals — and the partners and children who move with them — who sense that something deeper needs attention.

How much does it cost?

Because ROOTS™ is fully personalized, the investment is shared during your free call, once we understand your specific situation.

What if I'm not sure this is what I need?

That's exactly what the free call is for — no pressure, no commitment. We figure it out together.

How do I start?

Book your free call. That's the only step you need to take today.